chapotraphouse TomboyShulk • Now • 99%

Hello Israel apologists of the fediverse! Just wanted to let you know the person banning your ass from Hexbear for your settler-colonial takes is a lesbian trans Jew, so eat shit

From the river to the sea, you malignant freaks 

chapotraphouse TomboyShulk • Now • 99%

i stand in a graveyard of my own making and feel naught but catharsis

you may notice 32 fewer annoying people on the fediverse and that's because I combed through 4 cross-site hexbear drama threads and all of [!meanwhileongrad@sh.itjust.works](https://sh.itjust.works/c/meanwhileongrad) for users on instances we're still federated with that would either vehemently rather not see this site themselves, have active beef with this site, or are just straight up reactionary, and I banned them. I banned them all. I am become George Orwell, Nineteen of Eighty-Fours. 

Greetings gamers and those who wisely abstain, It has become clear to us that even in the short while we’ve federated, the situation with sh.itholefor.nazis is entirely untenable and we will be defederating immediately. Multiple instances of ableist and homophobic slurs directed at our users, overwhelming litigiousness against even the most innocuous comments by our users, and just a general ethos of reactionary behavior. We’re done and out. One of the concerns with embracing TC69 thought on site bans with federation is that the user would basically be just hexbear-side hidden and blocked from our comms, free to post reactionary content without the fear of Lenin behind them. That was a silly concern. We will resume our pre-federation policies regarding site bans. :07:

Due to multiple factors, such as [unaddressed ableist removals](https://hexbear.net/pictrs/image/3df0e4c7-bb64-4c00-bbdb-5c753018895c.jpeg?format=webp) from the /c/196 moderators, [defense of chasers](https://hexbear.net/pictrs/image/97e9abd7-e8be-499e-8db7-7a7d5d1e2762.webp), [no-quarter rules regarding our users](https://hexbear.net/pictrs/image/8dc37487-d36b-4a55-9519-c3f8bb4fcae6.png), [leakage of good-faith DMs from our admin team](https://hexbear.net/post/361826), and a general lack of initiative to punish these behaviors, we have come to the conclusion that the 196 community on lemmy.blahaj.zone has made the fediverse an unsafe space for our queer, disabled, neurodivergent, non-western, and other marginalized comrades on this forum, and we will be defederating from lemmy.blahaj.zone until we can be confident that this will not continue to be an issue. We have attempted to make good-faith parley with both the instance admin and the comm moderators, but we've reached a point which we feel that until these behaviors are addressed by instance administration, we can no longer continue to federate in good-faith while our users are being actively invalidated by a small-but-vocal portion of the forum. Once we are confident that these behaviors have ceased and are unlikely to continue, we are more-than-happy to refederate in the name of queer solidarity. Thanks for bearing with us :07:

Hi all, With regards to our recent integration into the Fediverse, it has become evident that specific rules should be outlined regarding our conduct towards it and our place in it. As such, we are making provisional amendments to the Code of Conduct in specific regard to federation as we find our footing and stake our ground as a part of the wider Fediverse ecosystem. The amendments are as such, demarcated within the dividers: __________ # Federation In regards to the Fediverse, a dual-pronged approach should be assumed: **Local Communities** Conduct remains as previously outlined [in the Hexbear Code of Conduct], except: 1. Users visiting Hexbear should be given breathing room to inquire in good-faith about topics that seem obvious to well-trodden leftists. Assume good faith in even the most obvious of questions, except in cases where a user is explicitly acting in a combative or unreasonable manner. 2. Do not ping users from other federated instances with intent to goad or mock. 3. Do not directly link to comments or posts of other federated instances on public posts with intent to goad or mock. 4. Disengagement rules, whilst not amended, are thoroughly emphasized regarding visiting users. **Federated Instances** Assume the conduct outlined regarding local communities, as well as: 1. When in a federated instance, their rules (and their code of conduct) apply. 2. Allow instances their own space for discussion, if requested implicitly or explicitly. If said discussion regards this site or its users, you are allowed to discuss said discussion within the local purview (meaning, within a Hexbear community), with regards to the rules laid out prior. 3. Conduct that is deemed untenably toxic to the Fediverse and Hexbear’s standing within it (by discretion of Hexbear moderation) may be subject to reprisal, regardless of whether it is explicitly outlined. _______ We're thankful to the moderation and admins of the instances federated with us for their patience as we carve out our own little hole within the Fediverse. And to our beautiful posters, thank you for bearing with us in this week where decades happen