What decision that you made originally seemed insignificant but then turned out to be life-changing?
  • iamhazel iamhazel Now 100%

    I did a show at the local theatre when I was 17. First time doing theatre. I had been homeschooled and sheltered my whole life for religious reasons.

    Since then I've deconstructed my faith, learned I'm trans, have had sex without getting married gasp, tried drugs, came up with my own values and beliefs, all the usual stuff, and it can all be traced back to that small impulsive choice to do something that intimidated me and try theatre.

    I mean, I'm sure I would've got out eventually but I'm happy things happened the way they did.

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  • GIMP 3.0 Enters String Freeze, Inching Closer To Release
  • iamhazel iamhazel Now 100%

    I don't fly on planes because the automatic voice system on the cockpit says "removed"

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  • GIMP 3.0 Enters String Freeze, Inching Closer To Release
  • iamhazel iamhazel Now 100%

    Man I love GIMP, it holds such a special place in my heart since I discovered it as a kid in the late aughts. There was this podcast Meet the GIMP I loved and watched on my iPod. All these years and many seizures later and I still remember the host and his voice... Rolf Steinhort I think.

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    Is it possible to be notified of replies to replies of my replies?
  • iamhazel iamhazel Now 100%

    It would be neat if you could "subscribe" to a post to get notified of any activity.

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  • What are some pod casts worth checking out and why?
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    • Fall of Civilizations: in depth look at how and why civilizations fell.
    • Completely Arbortrary: all about trees and sometimes tree-like things, super funny and wholesome, love these guys.
    • Hello from the Magic Tavern: improv comedy with a (sometimes super slowly) evolving story featuring a human, a wizard, and a talking badger. I fall asleep to this all the time. My favorite bit is sometimes they play their world's version of D&D, Offices and Bosses 😂
    • Levar Burton Reads: Levar's favorite stories, expertly narrated by him. Best vibes ever!
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  • video on how "biological sex" is a social construct
  • iamhazel iamhazel Now 100%

    You have such good responses ☺️

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  • what's your favorite thing to put ketchup on that isn't fries?
  • iamhazel iamhazel Now 100%

    Mustard. Ketchup. Relish optional. Perfection!

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  • Anti-Trans Legislative Risk Assessment Map: June 2024 Edition
  • iamhazel iamhazel Now 100%

    I feel so lucky my parents went with Michigan instead of Tennessee (family in both)... It has been pretty much painless to get on HRT, change all my names, change my gender marker even on my birth certificate, etc. All as an adult though. So far I've never had issues in the bathrooms, though I'm almost never in rural areas, that could be a very different story.

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  • What's a good online (globally available) human therapist or therapy service?
  • iamhazel iamhazel Now 100%

    I highly recommend finding a therapist in the normal manner and then confirming that they offer telehealth (I suspect most do), as opposed to BetterHelp and all those types of services. I have a great local therapist but if I'm ever not up to or can't come in, we just hop on a video call. It's good to have the option of going in person, even if you don't think you're there yet.

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  • how's your week going, Beehaw
  • iamhazel iamhazel Now 100%

    I have a migraine 😞 cut down from 3-5 cokes every day to 1. I just had today's one to hopefully that helps the migraine.

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  • IT Devs of of Lemmy, How do You Cope with Being Forced to Contribute to 'Social Media Pornshow of the Web'™ or Die?
  • iamhazel iamhazel Now 100%

    Sammeee except data analyst (by title, I guess) working in local healthcare. I'm under the impression I could make bank by selling out but I'm quite happy with 70k, a pension, and my dignity.

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  • IT Devs of of Lemmy, How do You Cope with Being Forced to Contribute to 'Social Media Pornshow of the Web'™ or Die?
  • iamhazel iamhazel Now 100%

    It's just as silly as using darn or frick, except they have none of the punch which is the purpose of swear words, ya know?

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  • IT Devs of of Lemmy, How do You Cope with Being Forced to Contribute to 'Social Media Pornshow of the Web'™ or Die?
  • iamhazel iamhazel Now 100%

    Local 👏 non 👏 profits (or govt)

    I feel like those options are always immediately written off. It is possible to find good to great opportunities. Plenty of shit ones too of course but it's worth a look.

    It feels good to work somewhere whose purpose is to support the community I live in.

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  • Why did the metaverse die? Because Silicon Valley doesn’t understand the concept of fun
  • iamhazel iamhazel Now 100%

    Wow how fascinating! Thanks for sharing that video.

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  • JWST - NIRCam: NGC 1546
  • iamhazel iamhazel Now 100%

    What a time to be alive... just to be able to see views like this... Just sad I'll probably never get to go to space or another planet :(

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  • how's your week going, Beehaw
  • iamhazel iamhazel Now 100%

    It's not too bad, they live a mile away so we still hang out :)

    Finding other friends has been on my to-do list for a while. All mine moved away after college :/

    I did adopt three kitties 🐈‍⬛🐈‍⬛🐈‍⬛

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  • how's your week going, Beehaw
  • iamhazel iamhazel Now 100%

    Thanks for sharing! I hope I find the energy to try!

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  • how's your week going, Beehaw
  • iamhazel iamhazel Now 100%

    I used Google but this seems a much more reliable guide, thanks :)

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  • I'm an anxious agoraphobic homebody but I am leaving the damn house if it's the last thing I do. I'm still kinda in shock, my roomie's boss gave them two tickets so we didn't even pay for them! I never thought I'd get to see her live 🥹 Water Witch is one of the best songs of all time imo.

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    "Initials" by "Florian Körner", licensed under "CC0 1.0". / Remix of the original. - Created with dicebear.comInitialsFlorian Körnerhttps://github.com/dicebear/dicebearAW
    I thought I ordered takeout..
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    My city redesign our downtown roads to have a whole bunch of horrible one ways in the 50s, and we are FINALLY changing back to how it was while making improvements like bike lanes. The first attempt at bike lanes with the current layout was horrible, basically death traps everywhere... Hoping for something better this time, lol. And more colored road lines, I like colored road lines.

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    Not going to describe how I would've tried to pronounce it...

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    (not because of Infinity obv, it's an amazing reddit app)

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    hazel 🤷🏻‍♀️🏳️‍🌈

    iamhazel@ beehaw.org

    Autistic cat lady-in-training.