Ask Lemmy Byereddithellolemmy • Now • 48%

Where is a good place to get help with a fundraiser?

This and a mastodon account are the only social media I have. Sadly, I'm in an awful position where I have to find funds for a lifesaving procedure for my boy, or have him euthanized. Of course I'm doing what I think is best, and have a fundraiser on [GoFundMe](https://gofund.me/dee4bbd4). Is there somewhere that this would be best posted, to get visibility and potentially help? We're at our wit's end.

Asklemmy Byereddithellolemmy • Now • 60%

What's a good community to ask for help with a GoFundMe?

Not pointing any fingers, but I've been told I'm 'begging' by sharing a fundraising page, **asking** for help. Is there somewhere appropriate for such a post? I've searched high and low, eventually opting for communities where it (to me) made sense to post.

Casual UK Byereddithellolemmy • Now • 63%

Seeking help for my boy

[fundraising page here](https://gofund.me/dee4bbd4) Never thought I'd find myself in this position, but here I am. Late one night last week, Bernie really wasn't himself and we felt a mass in his belly. We called an advice line and were told it was an emergency situation, and that we needed to get him to an out of hours vet immediately. Once he was checked, we learned he was suffering from something called idiopathic feline lower urinary tract disease, meaning his urethra is constricting and not allowing him to pass urine. He has had 3 catheters, and is still unable to urinate. A fourth catheter has been inserted today, until he can (hopefully) have surgery on Monday. The only option now to avoid losing him, is a procedure called perennial urethrostomy, to create a new opening in his urethra, so that he can urinate. Unfortunately the care he has already received over the past week has taken us up to the limit of his insurance cover, and we have been quoted £6,500 for the procedure. We are of course working to raise the funds ourselves, but the avenues we're exploring aren't guaranteed and if approved, are likely to take some time to get to us. This is a living nightmare for us, so I'm throwing myself at the aid of the internet. Even if all you can do is share the GoFundMe link where you think it may be seen by someone who can help, we would all be so grateful. [fundraising page here](https://gofund.me/dee4bbd4)

[fundraising page here](https://gofund.me/dee4bbd4) Never thought I'd find myself in this position, but here I am. Late one night last week, Bernie really wasn't himself and we felt a mass in his belly. We called an advice line and were told it was an emergency situation, and that we needed to get him to an out of hours vet immediately. Once he was checked, we learned he was suffering from something called idiopathic feline lower urinary tract disease, meaning his urethra is constricting and not allowing him to pass urine. He has had 3 catheters, and is still unable to urinate. A fourth catheter has been inserted today, until he can (hopefully) have surgery on Monday. The only option now to avoid losing him, is a procedure called perennial urethrostomy, to create a new opening in his urethra, so that he can urinate. Unfortunately the care he has already received over the past week has taken us up to the limit of his insurance cover, and we have been quoted £6,500 for the procedure. We are of course working to raise the funds ourselves, but the avenues we're exploring aren't guaranteed and if approved, are likely to take some time to get to us. This is a living nightmare for us, so I'm throwing myself at the aid of the internet. Even if all you can do is share the GoFundMe link where you think it may be seen by someone who can help, we would all be so grateful. [fundraising page here](https://gofund.me/dee4bbd4)

cats Byereddithellolemmy • Now • 81%

Seeking help for my boy

[fundraising page here](https://gofund.me/dee4bbd4) Never thought I'd find myself in this position, but here I am. Late one night last week, Bernie really wasn't himself and we felt a mass in his belly. We called an advice line and were told it was an emergency situation, and that we needed to get him to an out of hours vet immediately. Once he was checked, we learned he was suffering from something called idiopathic feline lower urinary tract disease, meaning his urethra is constricting and not allowing him to pass urine. He has had 3 catheters, and is still unable to urinate. A fourth catheter has been inserted today, until he can (hopefully) have surgery on Monday. The only option now to avoid losing him, is a procedure called perennial urethrostomy, to create a new opening in his urethra, so that he can urinate. Unfortunately the care he has already received over the past week has taken us up to the limit of his insurance cover, and we have been quoted £6,500 for the procedure. We are of course working to raise the funds ourselves, but the avenues we're exploring aren't guaranteed and if approved, are likely to take some time to get to us. This is a living nightmare for us, so I'm throwing myself at the aid of the internet. Even if all you can do is share the GoFundMe link where you think it may be seen by someone who can help, we would all be so grateful. [fundraising page here](https://gofund.me/dee4bbd4)

pets Byereddithellolemmy • Now • 100%

Seeking help for my boy

[fundraising page here](https://gofund.me/dee4bbd4) Never thought I'd find myself in this position, but here I am. Late one night last week, Bernie really wasn't himself and we felt a mass in his belly. We called an advice line and were told it was an emergency situation, and that we needed to get him to an out of hours vet immediately. Once he was checked, we learned he was suffering from something called idiopathic feline lower urinary tract disease, meaning his urethra is constricting and not allowing him to pass urine. He has had 3 catheters, and is still unable to urinate. A fourth catheter has been inserted today, until he can (hopefully) have surgery on Monday. The only option now to avoid losing him, is a procedure called perennial urethrostomy, to create a new opening in his urethra, so that he can urinate. Unfortunately the care he has already received over the past week has taken us up to the limit of his insurance cover, and we have been quoted £6,500 for the procedure. We are of course working to raise the funds ourselves, but the avenues we're exploring aren't guaranteed and if approved, are likely to take some time to get to us. This is a living nightmare for us, so I'm throwing myself at the aid of the internet. Even if all you can do is share the GoFundMe link where you think it may be seen by someone who can help, we would all be so grateful. [fundraising page here](https://gofund.me/dee4bbd4)