Many people feel they work in pointless, meaningless jobs, research confirms
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    A person's perception is highly informed by how well or poorly they understand the subject or situation in question.

    Let's say you got stood up by a first date because they got hit by a car on their way to you. Your perception of them is going to vary wildly depending on whether or not you know the facts behind why they didn't show up.

    Similarly, knowing how you actually fit into things at your job - i.e. your importance to your working group, the company, it's customers, society itself, allows you to have a more accurate set of facts to base your perception on.

    So yes, the truth matters.

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  • Many people feel they work in pointless, meaningless jobs, research confirms
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    I'm going to have to disagree with you on this.

    People have all sorts of beliefs that can qualitatively be proven as right or wrong. For example, all the wingnuts who believe that the COVID vaccine has trackers from Microsoft. Their beliefs are 100% bereft of reality.

    Now, can they go ahead and act on those mistaken beliefs? Sure. But that doesn't make their beliefs correct in any way.

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  • Scientists Create New Material Five Times Lighter and Four Times Stronger Than Steel
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    While I get that this is an article geared to laymen/the general public, I do think we should be holding science communication to a higher standard.

    I agree with you 100%.

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    Do you derive intrinsic satisfaction from your job or see it as just a means to end?
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    It's perfectly possible to have both a reasonable salary as well as intrinsic satisfaction.

    However, I will say that getting both of those characteristics together is far more likely with a skilled job compared to an unskilled job (i.e. jobs that require specific training and/or degrees).

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  • Many people feel they work in pointless, meaningless jobs, research confirms
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    It's worth pointing out that feeling like you work in a pointless, meaningless job doesn't necessarily make it true. This paper is solely about people's perceptions, not facts.

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  • Google warns again it will start deleting inactive accounts in December
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    A light breeze is enough for Google to lock accounts, and they make it nearly impossible to re-access. And they have no reliable customer service you can call or email.

    But the final straw for me was when they started this bullshit of saying "tell me your phone number so we can make sure it's you". They never had my number in the first place, so it was clear that this was pure bullshit of them trying to associate real world identities with their accounts.

    After that, I said "fuck em", changed to other providers, and haven't look back since.

    Go ahead and delete my accounts - your service is pure garbage anyway.

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  • Scientists Create New Material Five Times Lighter and Four Times Stronger Than Steel
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    You won't find that level of detail in typical articles, because they are intended for the general public and are intended to be an overview that a layman can comprehend.

    However, the paper itself, which the article links to, has more detail including deformation testing.

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  • A Black prosecutor was elected in Georgia – so white Republicans made their own district
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    Believe it or not, you're the one being racist now - by painting all of the US and all Americans with the same brush.

    You don't hear about all the people that are perfectly fine folks and all the places that aren't insane because that makes boring news. So the only news you hear about are the whackjobs and bottom-feeders like this.

    Don't make the same mistake of judging an entire country by a partial set of facts because that puts your feet on the first steps of the same path the people in this article walked.

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  • 11-year-old girl arrested over false report of 'kidnapped' friend in online challenge gone wrong
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    I understand what you're saying completely. I'm not even saying that I disagree with you - to be honest, I'm not quite sure what to think about this circumstance.

    However, I will say that there are limits to being lax on someone just because they are a child. This was a serious offense that could have cost multiple people their lives and a serious response is justifiably warranted.

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    If convincing sexbots/androids were to come to market, would you give up on real women entirely?
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    Two things to consider are:

    1. In my hypothetical, I did say that these were androids which could convincingly emulate personalities and human behavior. In other words, they would be capable of fulfilling psychological and emotional sides of a relationship.

    2. The dating scene is particularly rough for men at the moment for various reasons. The internet's effect on social activities magnifies that, and the shift to work-from-home has made it worse.

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  • Do you agree/disagree with this tipping guide?
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    Changes have to be made in the pay scale first, and then we can remove tipping...

    I understand what you're saying, but that's just not how things work. As long as tipping is the norm, that pay scale will never change.

    The only way it will change is if tipping stops and restaurants find themselves with no staff because they can no longer hire anyone for $2/hour.

    Sometimes, communal sacrifice is the only way to get bad practices to change. I agree with you that it hurts, but the simple fact is that restaurants will not stop underpaying staff unless they are forced to.

    And attempts to put this into law was fought by the servers themselves because enough of them make more money off of tips than they would from a straight salary.

    So it's just not going to happen unless society forces their hand by saying "no, this is ridiculous" and stops paying extra for everything.

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  • Is monkrus's site no longer trustworthy? My AV blocks it due to a detected trojan.
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    It shows 5 if you scan w14.monkrus.ws.

    And this is Quttera's analysis here:
    https://quttera.com/detailed_report/w14.monkrus.ws

    Whether there is a real problem or not, it might be something the monkrus admins want to look into in order to address it.

    But if anyone else has a better understanding of what's going on with their site, I'd love to hear it and it's probably good information for the rest of this sub.

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  • For the last month or two, my AV blocks their site because it detected a ScrInject.B trojan. And yes, it's the correct site (monkrus.ws). VirusTotal also shows 4 security vendors register it as malicious. Are these all false positives or is monkrus's site no longer trustworthy?

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    If convincing sexbots/androids were to come to market, would you give up on real women entirely?
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    What a load of BS. Where did I say that unrealistic standards referred to basic hygiene and the ability to enjoy being out of the house?

    You're making up imaginary statements and then refuting them. Try improving your reading comprehension.

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    What's the most comfortable underwear type?
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    I find regular briefs to be the most comfortable.

    You pointed out one of the issues with boxer-briefs, and regular boxers is like throwing a random wad of fabric down there and finding new ways of being uncomfortable throughout the day.

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    If convincing sexbots/androids were to come to market, would you give up on real women entirely?

    In recent years, the dating scene for men has declined and degraded in quality for any number of reasons - dating apps commodifying relationships, women developing unrealistic standards, etc... If sexbots were to come to market which could convincingly emulate personalities and human behavior, would you completely switch over to them and stop trying to date real women? Or would sexbots just be an occasional "fling" or something you would avoid entirely?

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    The Anti-NSFW measures have gone a bit far...

    So let me start off by saying that I recognize that there was initially a genuine problem with people who didn't want NSFW content being exposed to it. Some of this was due to the fact that not all content was being correctly flagged as NSFW, and some of it was because a lot of users didn't realize that individual users can choose to completely block an entire instance - which is not only a very easy and fast solution, but also does not require an all-or-nothing approach of defederating from NSFW instances. A number of changes were made, but some of those lingering changes have meant that people who *do* want to see NSFW content are not because: 1. Even having subscribed to several NSFW subs, they are effectively completely missing from my feed. 2. Most NSFW thumbnails are blurred. Both of these behaviors should not be occurring if a user has chosen in their settings to NOT hide NSFW content. However, I will also say that the blurred state is something that deserves its own user setting (i.e. so that a user can choose to NOT hide NSFW, but still want them blurred or not) - preferably with the granularity to set it for various sub-types of NSFW (e.g. porn, gore, etc...).

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    Tip: While there is no equivalent to RES yet for kbin, here is an easy way to switch user accounts...

    As kbin is so new, there is no equivalent to RES (Reddit Enhancement Suite) yet. However there is an easy way to switch user accounts - at least for those of you using Firefox. One of the official Mozilla extensions for Firefox is this: **Firefox Multi-Account Containers** [https://addons.mozilla.org/en-US/firefox/addon/multi-account-containers/](https://addons.mozilla.org/en-US/firefox/addon/multi-account-containers/) Essentially, this lets you create and use multiple browser "containers", where each container has its own set of cookies completely segregated from the others. That means you can create one container where you are logged into kbin under your regular account, another container where you are logged into your NSFW account, another container where you are logged in under your moderator account, etc... It's also very helpful for any other sites where you have multiple accounts and want a convenient way to switch between them (i.e. Google Mail, etc...). You can easily switch between containers - **which takes effect ONLY on that browser window, not universally**. That means you can be logged into kbin, Gmail, or any place else - simultaneously under multiple accounts (i.e. one browser window has gmail logged in under your personal account, while another browser window has gmail logged in under your work account).

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    What are some common, but rarely discussed, misconceptions that women have about men?

    I'll start with a very common misunderstanding that I very rarely see discussed, due to its delicate nature: Aggression and violence. I find that women almost never have a good understanding of men's relationship with aggression and violence. When women associate it with us, it's almost always strongly negative. And while the concept of abuse exists, that's not what I'm talking about. Let me put a caveat that this is something that, as a man, I have an innate understanding of - but have never needed to discuss, so I'm struggling to describe it and will probably fumble a bit at accurately getting this out. Men and women are wired differently with respect to our place in the world, how we have evolved, our natural abilities, etc... Evolutionarily, men have typically been the hunters and warriers, and women have typically been gatherers and caretakers. This has led to having different traits and attributes that allow us to contribute better to our respective roles. For example, early women spent much time around camp gathering needed supplies such as fruit, nuts, wood, water, as well as tending to fires and cooking, as well as cleaning animal skins. While performing all of these tasks, they also needed to keep an eye on children to make sure they stayed safe. It was critical that they develop the ability to multitask well in order to be able to switch their attention across all of these tasks. And that ability and tendency to multitask has carried through evolution to be one of their strengths today. By contrast, for men, being able to concentrate on a single task was essential for hunting, fishing, and fighting. Tracking prey, waiting in a secluded spot for prey to show up, or ambushing enemy warriers requires hours of concentration and focus. These things had to be done quietly, without making noise or talking, and with a high degree of concentration in order to not miss the opportunity to strike. Failure to do this would mean the loss of food, or death as a result of your enemy detecting your presence. Take that lifestyle over millions of years, and that results in a sharpened ability to quietly focus on a single subject for long periods of time, not to mention solitary behavior - both traits which are observable in men across the world. This ability is one of men's typical strengths today. Well, that evolutionary relationship with being a hunter and warrier coupled with the genetic predisposition of higher strength also translates to having a different relationship with aggression and violence. For example, boys learn early on how easily we can hurt others if we are not careful. So most men learn to control that side of us and to avoid fights when possible. But at the same time, when there is a heightened confrontation, there is often an implied threat of the violence they are capable of. This is not necessarily overt - it can be subtle and very importantly, **it can exist even when there is very little chance or intention of things going that far**. It's very hard to describe the subtle ways this can exist in our lives. If we're in public with our young kids, and a group of strange teenage boys are roughhousing without paying attention or caring about who they are near and they get too close to our kids, a woman might call out to them "Hey! Settle down!" or "Take it somewhere else!". By contrast, a man might not say a word and simply stand up while glaring at those teens. The unspoken and primal body language is "You are starting to become a threat to my children. If you threaten my children, I will beat all of you into the ground." Often, the teenage boys will immediately notice and, conciously or subconciously, recognize that they have gone too far, and back off - even if they pretend to not notice in order to save face. But part of what that translates to is women often misinterpreting men's relationship with aggression and violence with being an abuser, which is **NOT EVEN REMOTELY** the same thing. A lot of men may take out an extreme amount of frustration and anger on an inanimate object. If they have a home gym, they might take it out on a heavy-bag, but some of them will simply punch a table, etc... There are many cases where men have learned to do this as a habit to release heavy tension as a way of safely letting it go. But women will often misunderstand and say "if they'll punch a table when they're angry, it's only a matter of time before they punch you". This is a very strong leap to a conclusion that is often highly incorrect. I've known many men throughout my life that will punch a wall, but would never lay a hand on another person in anger. However, this distinction is lost for most women. Since women are wired differently, they lack that first-person understanding of men's relationship with aggression, so I absolutely understand why they do this. But it doesn't change the fact that they are often mis-judging men due to that lack of understanding. I will also put in a caveat that some men do lack legitimate control and are abusers. I am not, in any way, trying to excuse their behavior. What I am saying is that many women lack the understanding to tell the difference between abusers versus men who are less reserved about letting their tension out but who would never lay a finger on them.

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    How do I prevent NSFW thumbnails from being blurred?

    How do I prevent NSFW thumbnails from being blurred? I've been through the settings and can't find a way to disable this. It was working fine the other day, but now they're all blurred. How do I change this?

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