Which is it kbin?

Bad take aside, It's frustrating the upvotes and downvotes I get on kbin don't match up to how they appear on lemmy, or hell, even other instances of kbin.

I'll have posts that have 20 upvotes here on kbin.cafe, but 2 elsewhere. I'll have posts that will have no downvotes at all on kbin.social, but they'll be present on lemmy.

How am I supposed to gauge people's reactions when the feedback isn't consistant between sites and instances?